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Wife Refuses To Accept Job As Family's Communicator

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My husband is a nice guy, but he's not particularly good at planning ahead. This means that special events, holidays and birthdays often go unmarked because he doesn't remember in time to get something sent.

In my parents' marriage, all family communications fell to my mom. It was her job to send the Christmas cards, birthday gifts ...Read more

Man's Announced Engagement Surprises His Wife Of 17 Years

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been together 21 years, married for 17. We recently did a short sale on our home and moved to Texas. It was a professional move for my husband.

At first I was wowed; then I grew homesick for my family, my job and my friends. My husband was not supportive of my emotional needs.

Three years later, my husband has ...Read more

Runaway Dad On Dating Site Is Guilty Of False Advertising

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: Last year I had a baby with one of my college professors. He left me 10 days before our daughter was born and has never met her. I chased him through family court, and he gives me the bare minimum in state-ordered support.

Recently, I spotted him advertising himself on a dating website as a loving man and describing how he loves his ...Read more

Second Husband Fails To Earn His Sister-In-Law's Approval

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My sister Eileen is married to her second husband, a man I'll call Harry. He's nice, but some of his choices landed him in jail for a while. I'm polite when we see him, but I don't trust him.

Eileen and Harry live beyond their means. They rent a large house and buy luxury cars rather than something more economical. These are my ...Read more

Family Jumps To Conclusions About Woman's Career Choice

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm a woman who was honorably discharged from the military recently and am now in an electrical construction apprenticeship. I'm starting a great career in a field I love that can give me a comfortable living without having to rely on a second job.

My problem is my family. Most of them are convinced that I hate men or I wish I was ...Read more

Long-Running Family Joke Is No Laughing Matter For Sister

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm in my early 20s, and my 18-year-old sister, Judy, is attending community college. All my memories of her consist of her putting me down. We reconciled just as I was moving out.

Abby, she is extremely dependent on the family. She cannot do for herself. If I refuse to help her, I am told by my family that I'm selfish or a b----. ...Read more

Son Is Odd Man Out When Mom Sends Birthday Gifts To Family

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My husband, daughter and I all have birthdays in the same month. My mother-in-law always sends gifts for me and my daughter, but never to my husband, her son. He tries to shrug it off, but I know it bothers him.

In earlier years, I thought it was an oversight. I have tried gentle reminders and hints, but again this year there was no ...Read more

Little Girl's Many Boyfriends Raise A Red Flag For Mom

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I am single and the mother of a 7-year-old girl. When she was 4, I decided there would be no parade of guys coming in and out of my life, or any at all. I have barely dated, and the few times I have gone out, I never talked about it around her.

Over the last two or three years, she has come home every few weeks or months with a new ...Read more

Married Man Considers Affair To Replace Dormant Love Life

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm in my 60s, fit, sexually able and I desire physical relations. My wife, because of health issues, is no longer interested in sex. In fact, it would be at least mildly painful to her.

I recently met a lady my age who is in the same predicament. She has a sexual appetite; her husband does not. She hinted she would be interested in ...Read more

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