Ask Amy: In-law is riled over handicap parking permit
My point is that this is a familiar dynamic in gendered groups.
You might ask your husband how he feels about the tone and tenor of his book club, but unless there is a specific aspect of his behavior that you find offensive — I suggest that you turn the page.
Dear Amy: On the topic of downsizing and returning decades-old letters to the person who originally wrote them [“Cleaning in Culver City”], I have a very simple solution: Ask first!
— Problem Solved
Dear Solved: This question has garnered a huge response. And, yes, when tempted to return old letters or photos to the subject, the solution is simple: Ask first!
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