Ask Amy: Conversations about Down syndrome feel awkward
When I said I thought it was strange that he didn't care to know my birthdate, he accused me of "trying to start a fight."
It seems that if it isn't about HIM, he isn't interested.
Am I being too sensitive?
– In the Dark
Dear In the Dark: I have often remarked on how important I believe birthdays to be, because this is a day when others are invited to acknowledge and celebrate your very existence.
In balanced relationships, partners actually look for opportunities to celebrate one another, because (selfishly speaking) it feels good!
Yes, I agree that it is “strange” that your guy doesn’t claim to even want to know the date of your birth (this can be vital information that he might need to supply in case of an emergency).
Dear Amy: “Sad and Suffering” was upset because her partner did not cancel spring break plans with his grandchildren to stay home with her while she was on chemo.
She made it sound like he had abandoned her in her hour of need but Amy, spring break only lasts for one week.
So for that one week, her daughter stepped in to help.
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