Ask Amy: Hoarder in the house causes stress
It was grueling because she spoke to me using patronizing and condescending tone and language. I interpret this as ageism and elderspeak.
I felt demeaned, belittled, and angry.
She has been my hygienist for years and she is excellent. She may not even realize what she is doing.
I wanted to say something, but part of me says that this is small potatoes on the plate of life. But I dread seeing her again.
As an RN, I am also a healthcare professional. How we speak to those in our care is important. We need to communicate in a respectful manner.
Your advice?
– No Plaque
Dear No Plaque: It is nearly impossible to respond verbally when you’re having your teeth cleaned. And I agree about small potatoes on the plate of life.
However, you have already expressed feeling dread about your next appointment.
This is having an impact on your healthcare.
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