Ask Amy: New girlfriend fears guy is a chump
We've been in a relationship for three years and so far I've yet to meet his siblings or mom, I can't go in his house, and we've only been intimate a few times.
Our "relationship" consists of phone calls and text messages.
I've invited him and the kids to holiday and birthday meals, but he's always got other plans.
I'm never invited to any family gatherings.
He says he cares for me very much – as I do him – but this isn't working for me. What do you think?
– Wondering
Dear Wondering: I think this isn’t working for him, either.
I hope you meet a new special someone who wants to open his life to you. This man … ain’t it.
Dear Amy: A divorced dad ["Missing Friends"] wrote to you about their “couple” friends siding with his ex-wife, leaving him missing their friendship.
I was on the other side of this. I was the wife that was left "taking" all the friends. I didn't ask people to choose, they just did.
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