Ask Amy: Addict in recovery wonders about disclosure
He’s also never really had much of a long-term girlfriend.
Thinking back to different situations where he has oddly questioned some things, I realize that he has been been tracking me for a while, now.
We have been together for a year and a half.
I am supposed to be preparing to move in with him a long distance away. This involves picking up my whole life and leaving where I live.
I literally feel violated, disappointed, and angry all in one.
How am I supposed to bring this up to him, and how do I move past this and we continue forward? Is that even possible?
– At a Loss
Dear Loss: I’m going to assume that you have absolutely verified that this has happened because when confronted, your guy will likely deny it.
If this man’s behavior isn’t a dealbreaker for you – then what is?
You are feeling righteously angry, disappointed and violated by his choice.
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