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Dear Boomer: You have thanked someone for a service they've provided. The person has responded, "No problem."
I realize that "no problem" is different than saying "you're welcome," but what does "you're welcome" really mean, anyway? You're welcome -- to or for what?
"You're welcome" is part of a politeness formula we North Americans have used for about a century, but the formula is changing, so when someone says "no problem," they are not saying that they just did you a favor; they are saying that it was their pleasure to serve you, and they are acknowledging your appreciation.
Dear Amy: "Upset Friend" told the disturbing story of a long-time friend who came up behind her and grabbed her privates. I agree that this would constitute assault. However, all parties had been drinking. She also mentioned that the man was retired. I am wondering if he is a black-out drunk, or possibly showing some signs of dementia.
-- Worried
Dear Worried: Either (or both) of your theories could be correct, which is why the person who was assaulted should speak her truth about what happened that night.
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