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By Amy Dickinson, Tribune Content Agency on

Uncles and aunts have very real opportunities to influence their nephews and nieces, even over a distance. Understand, however, that the emotional investment you make might not earn immediate "interest." As with financial accounts, these relationship investments tend to grow slowly over time -- and, as investment professionals always warn, "past performance is not always indicative of future results."

Dear Amy: I manage a small group of employees in a small regional office.

As the most senior employee, I am the de facto "office boss."

Recently, I found out that one of my senior female employees (who is married with children) has begun an affair with a junior male employee.

Inter-office relationships are not against company policy, however, the nature of their relationship has certainly changed the office dynamic.

We are a close-knit group who neither endorses nor addresses their relationship, but we are vehemently opposed to infidelity and the nature of their relationship.

 

A schism has begun to take hold and I am worried that it will continue to have negative effects on the office (as well as the stability of my staffing), should something go wrong.

I have notified our HR department and was advised to monitor and address this, should their work suffer, but that beyond that, there is little else to do -- as the relationship is not against company policy.

As their boss and the "office boss," how do I navigate this?

-- Upset

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