Sexting situation unsettles spouse
You don't seem to have questions about your relationship with your sister, but yes, your relationship with your husband is in trouble.
Is he registered on internet sites where he is meeting women and sending or exchanging these photos? What are his motivations for doing this? If he knows that this is wrong, then why is he doing it? You should ask these questions and attempt to have an honest dialogue about it. A marriage counselor would help.
Staying together for the sake of the kids isn't necessarily best for any of you, especially if your husband is engaged in compulsive sexualized or sex-seeking behavior.
Dear Amy: Could you run a "destination wedding" PSA?
Those of us invited to destination weddings for close friends and family are often put in a difficult position between going into financial debt and missing out on an important day for someone we care about.
I plead with brides and grooms to consider the financial situation of those they are inviting before choosing a destination wedding.
I know for a fact that these weddings are often much cheaper for the bride and groom, while the additional expense then falls onto their guests. This is not right.
If you are hosting a destination wedding, offer to at least help out for people you KNOW can't afford it, but who would hate to miss it.
Even just paying for one of their plane tickets can mean a lot.
-- Been There
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