Mother of the bride worries about 'mama's boy'
-- Mr. Crankypants
Dear Crankypants: If you don't want to be the "bad guy," then definitely move -- but understand that moving might be tough because I assume the value of your house has been negatively affected by this active business across the street.
You are going to need to up your game. Document this business with time-stamped photos and videos. Talk to other neighbors, research your local zoning codes, write a letter to the appropriate enforcement official, and show up at public meetings.
You have the right -- and responsibility -- to advocate for yourself.
Dear Amy: An additional suggestion for poor "Seldom Heard," the husband whose wife never stops talking.
This describes my sister to a T. Finally she was persuaded to explore the reasons behind this.
It turns out that she has ADHD. Honestly, just knowing about this seems to have helped her to change her behavior.
-- Concerned Brother
Dear Concerned: People often tell me that receiving an ADHD diagnosis as an adult is life-changing.
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