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Forget 'tidying up,' and do some death cleaning

By Amy Dickinson, Tribune Content Agency on

You sound like a high-functioning adult. At some point, you should question your own judgment and motives for staying with someone who you believe needs so much fixing!

Your guy might not be so "easily fixed." I suggest that you wrap your mind around the idea that he will always move through the world very much "as is."

Then, you have a big decision to make.

Dear Amy: I like it when you personally relate to your readers. You seem to have encountered so many different situations that I often wonder if it's possible. I guess I'm asking for an explanation for your Zelig-like life.

-- Wondering

 

Dear Wondering: First of all, I'm ancient. I have a huge family, have worked in many different jobs, raised a child as a single parent, and am now a stepparent and grandparent. I've lived my life, and have been paying attention.

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(You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: askamy@amydickinson.com. Readers may send postal mail to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. You can also follow her on Twitter @askingamy or "like" her on Facebook.)


 

 

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