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Use a stick, not a carrot, to curb constant talking

By Amy Dickinson, Tribune Content Agency on

I have four ideas: Ask your gift-giving relatives to spring for the additional cost of wrapping when they order online.

Have a supply of gift bags on hand to use for these gifts.

When it's one son's birthday, ask another son to wrap the gifts that come in from faraway family members.

Suck it up and realize that this might be an annoyance, but it is not a problem.

Dear Amy: "Sleepless in Chicago" finds herself in a bind because she swore not to reveal her friend's affair. I avoid such situations by refusing to accept others' secrets. Several times when someone has started to tell me something that sounded like they were breaching a confidence, I've stopped them and said that I don't want to know anything I'm not supposed to know.

 

-- Topher

Dear Topher: Heading secrets off at the pass is an excellent idea.

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(You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: ASKAMY@amydickinson.com. Readers may send postal mail to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. You can also follow her on Twitter @askingamy or "like" her on Facebook.)


 

 

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