Young woman wants to roar for rights
When the manager is looking for a place to seat you, say, "We plan to linger over our lunch. Perhaps you can stick us in a corner where we won't get in the way." This way the seater can pair you with the appropriate waiter whose shift coincides with your visit.
If you visit this establishment regularly, they already know you. If you are a 30 percent tipper, they know you and value your business.
Don't offer "rent" money to a server up front.
Dear Amy: I'm responding to "No Fun in Fundraising," regarding relentless fundraising supporting schools and youth activities.
Many years ago my daughter handed me a large envelope containing a catalogue and order form for wrapping paper, handed out in her class at school.
I wrote a note on the front of the envelope in bold letters, advising the teacher that my daughter would not be pestering neighbors, friends or families with any fundraisers.
-- Been There
Dear Been There: No Thin Mints for you!
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