Man frets about mom's reaction to girlfriend
Dear Fed Up: Comparing a human baby to a dog is a bit much. I agree with you that couples should pay for their own weddings, but celebrating these milestones with a gift of congratulations is both customary and kind.
Sometimes it actually feels good -- and not an undue burden -- to give a gift!
If you don't want to receive any gifts for your wedding, then let your guests know. I assume at least some of them will be relieved.
Dear Amy: "What to Expect" was wondering about a gift registry for a baby shower.
Information about the registry should go right on the invitation. That old rule that gift information should not be on invitations is antiquated. No one follows it.
-- Experienced
Dear Experienced: Thank you.
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