Physician's symptoms could be sign of illness
He could have a serious neurological illness that he manages or masks while he is at work, but which flares when he is outside of his normal routine and surroundings. My understanding of neurological disorders is only anecdotal, but I believe that some of the behavior you describe could be linked to very serious illness.
He could also be drinking, or taking drugs, behind the garage. Your concerns are valid.
Dear Amy: Many years ago, when I was a teen, I took $20 from my friend.
My friend confronted me. I denied it, and we never really spoke about it again. She was my neighbor, and our families were very close.
We still keep in touch. I have not seen the friend in many years, but I have seen other family members, and my theft is always on my mind.
Of course, I feel foolish admitting that I did this dumb thing.
Should I apologize and repay the $20 after all these years, or should I just forget about it?
-- Worried
Dear Worried: If I told you to just forget about this, would you? Haven't you tried to forget about this theft?
No, you won't forget about it, so you should own it, admit it, make amends and ask to be understood and forgiven.
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