Woman wants to donate shoes, along with extra judgment
Aside from that, you seem to believe that he is cheap, even though he always picks up the check when you go out (if you don't want to pay, then don't "insist!").
The most important aspect of your question is that you don't seem to know how to talk to him about it. Instead, you are doing a little dance -- every meal, every household expense, every penny you spend, you hold up against every penny he doesn't spend.
If you want to upgrade from McDonald's and also want him to pay for these nicer outings, you really must talk about it. This should lead to a larger discussion of finances. He may have expenses he has not disclosed. And yes, he may in fact be cheap.
Dear Amy: I'd like to offer a note of support for your answer to "No Sex in the Country," the letter from a woman who did not want to have a sexual relationship with her male friend, who continued to pressure her.
I wonder if men understand how trapped women feel when they are persistently pressured for sex.
It's a deal breaker, for sure.
-- Been There
Dear Been There: I completely agree.
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