Husband sends marriage to the dogs
We are from very different cultures, but I like her a lot and we chat almost on a daily basis.
She likes me too, but I'm not sure if I have won her heart yet.
I really care about her and she is very honest so I know everything about her.
Of course, it is impossible to have a real relationship at this distance, and although I do well in my home country, it would still be hard to settle in the U.S.
I don't know what to do. Sometimes I want to stop chatting with her because it becomes very painful, but I am so deeply in love that it's hard not to have any communication with her.
Do you feel that I should break all communications with her and if so, how should I handle the pain?
I'm trying to get to the U.S., but it seems that it would be very hard to get a job there, so I am in a bit of a mess.
What is your advice for me?
-- In Love at a Distance
Dear Distance: It seems you have not personally met the woman you are so in love with. You also present many practical and very real roadblocks to you two being together.
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