Couple should be smarter than their smartphone
Dear Don't: As you state, this man has made it very clear that he does not want to have an exclusive and committed relationship with you.
If you are enjoying being this man's "Miss Right Now," then you should freely take whatever he offers and enjoy yourself. However, if you are hoping to find "the one," then you should keep looking. There is nothing preventing you from enjoying his company while still trying to meet and date other people, and you should assume he is doing the same.
Dear Amy: I liked your answer to "Bent out of Shape," whose husband refused to clean out his car -- until his pastor suggested it.
I agree that she should stop doing this chore for him. If she follows your advice, she will be more serene about a situation she cannot control.
-- A Fan
Dear Fan: She should also refuse to ride in his car, if at all possible.
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