My Pet World: Tips for bringing out the best in a skittish cat
Dear Cathy,
I am a first-time adopter of a six-year-old shelter cat. I've raised dogs all my life, but after my beloved Westie passed away a few years ago, I missed having a pet. Due to my age, I felt a senior cat would require less maintenance and make a nice companion.
I have had Tucker for several months now, and he is still quite skittish and not people-friendly or affectionate. I've only been able to pet him a few times on his terms. Otherwise, he is a good kitty. The folks at the shelter said he had lived the first six years of his life in a semi-hoarding situation with other cats as well as dogs.
I am using pheromones, which have been somewhat helpful. Do you have any other suggestions on how to get him to open up to the love we have to give?
— Elaine, Franklin Square, New York
Dear Elaine,
Helping a skittish cat like Tucker can take time and patience, especially considering his background in a semi-hoarding situation. Here are some ways to help him adjust to his new home.
First, create safe spaces for Tucker, like a cozy bed in a corner or open closet, or a tall cat tree where he can climb to take in the view without feeling threatened. Provide these safe spaces throughout the home so he's always close to one.
Next, let Tucker come to you on his terms. Offer treats and praise whenever he approaches you or allows you to pet him. It’s important to reward him for any friendly behaviors.
The more you play with Tucker, the closer you two will be. Engage Tucker in interactive play sessions using toys, such as wand toys or feather teasers. Playtime not only provides mental and physical exercise but also builds trust between you and Tucker.
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