Shouldn't we learn from those who have lived many years?

on Jan 30, 2026

Grandmother with grandkids. Dreamstime/TCA

From the writings of the Rev. Billy Graham

Q: I’ve been amazed to see the impact that such a young man as Charlie Kirk has left on society, and I’ve watched many videos where he lifts up the older people in his life, saying he has learned so much from them. In fact, Charlie called himself an “old soul.” I thought that was sad until I realized that Charlie was grateful to sit at the feet of the elderly and learn from their wisdom and experiences. Isn’t this a Biblical principle, and shouldn’t we instill this desire in our children – to learn from those who have lived many years? – L.E.

A: The Old Testament is filled with remembrances, saying, “Remember the former things of old” (Isaiah 46:9). Society today may not like the word old, yet young people pay a small fortune for jeans that look old. Collectors put the highest value on antiques because they are … old! Others buy old clunkers, restore them, and then proudly drive down the highway showing off … the old.

The days when the aged were admired, looked up to, and respected are gone. This should not be. The Bible has a great deal to say about the older generations and that the younger generations are to respect them and learn from them. God urges the human race to commit their lives to Him in youth. For He will give meaning to life and guide them along the way while enjoying the blessings He brings.

Remembering what God says is important. We are also told that God can choose not to remember. For those who repent and receive Christ as Savior, God says, “Their sin I will remember no more” (Jeremiah 31:34, NKJV). This is a wonderful promise from the Lord that belongs to everyone who obeys and lives for Him.

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(This column is based on the words and writings of the late Rev. Billy Graham.)