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Empty-Nester Looking For New Ways To Fill Time

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am in my late 50s, and all my children are in college or have recently graduated. My life used to be a balancing act of taking care of my children and working. Now that my three children are all gone, I have a lot of free time. I'm at a loss because my entire identity seems to be consumed by the role of a mother, and I have no ...Read more

Study-Abroad Student Feels Guilty For Not Missing Home

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a 20-year-old student who recently relocated temporarily to Europe. I have been living here for two months, and I love it. I have recently been feeling guilty because I have done a poor job of keeping in touch with my family. I was raised to be extremely independent, so I don't often rely on my parents or older sisters for ...Read more

Addicted Reader Wants To Stop Gaming

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DEAR HARRIETTE: My gaming addiction has led me to spend excessive amounts of time on my game, causing me to neglect my husband and become easily angered with my child. I recognize that my behavior is hurting those I love, and I am desperate to find a way to overcome this addiction and repair the damage it has caused. I feel consumed by the need ...Read more

Readers Respond To "Anxieties On Getting Old"

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DEAR READERS: I got so many great responses to the letter from "Anxieties on Getting Old" that I am printing two of them for you to enjoy. I love when you write to me with your questions and responses. Keep them coming!

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have some additional ideas for you in answering "Anxieties on Getting Old."

This person was worried about ...Read more

Reader With Diabetes Needs To Change Lifestyle

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am still living an unhealthy lifestyle that includes consuming soft drinks, despite being diagnosed with diabetes. I recognize that this habit is detrimental to my health and could worsen my condition, but I find it difficult to break free from it. I need guidance on how to shift my mindset and make healthier choices for my ...Read more

Mom Worries That Son Is Too Dependent

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DEAR HARRIETTE: My son is often referred to as a "mama's boy" because of his affectionate gestures toward me, such as kissing my cheeks before school, seeking my opinion on his clothes and requesting I support him during his basketball games. While I appreciate his closeness and love, I sometimes wonder if his attachment to me might hinder his ...Read more

Partner Wants To Bring Up Idea Of Adoption To Wife

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DEAR HARRIETTE: Adoption seems to be the only option for my seven-year marriage to work. My wife is unable to bear children due to polycystic ovary syndrome, and this has put a strain on our hopes of starting a family. We have explored various options, but adoption appears to be the most viable solution for us to fulfill our desire to become ...Read more

Employee Feels Demoralized After Being Let Go

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I feel disrespected after being laid off, despite being one of the best performers in my role. It is disheartening to feel undervalued and overlooked, especially when I have dedicated myself to my job and consistently produced high-quality work. The decision to let me go has left me feeling confused and demoralized; I believe I ...Read more

Reader Wonders How To Engage The Mean Girls

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DEAR HARRIETTE: As an ordinary girl, I have recently caught the attention of the campus crush, who has started to court me. This unexpected turn of events has stirred up jealousy among the other girls, leading to an atmosphere of animosity and dislike all directed toward me. I find myself feeling overwhelmed by the negative energy and uncertain ...Read more

Eldest Sister Struggles With Siblings' Success

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am the older sister to two incredibly successful younger siblings, both thriving in their careers at Fortune 500 companies. While I couldn't be prouder of their accomplishments, I find myself struggling to make ends meet, and the contrast in our financial situations is difficult to ignore. Witnessing their achievements has, at ...Read more

Reader In Relationship Questions Befriending Men

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I recently received advice from someone suggesting that I should not befriend boys because I already have a boyfriend. This is my first time having a boyfriend, but I have a group of male friends I have been close to for years. It feels weird to walk away from my true friends in order to have a relationship. This advice has left ...Read more

Ex-Bff Wants To Apologize For Stealing Boyfriend

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DEAR HARRIETTE: My best friend wants to apologize for hurting me by stealing my boyfriend. The betrayal and pain caused by her actions have deeply affected me, and I am struggling to come to terms with the situation. While I appreciate her desire to apologize, the hurt and betrayal I feel are still raw and present. I want to find a way to heal ...Read more

After Breakup, Woman Unsure Of Future

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I never thought I'd find myself in this situation, but here I am. Recently, I was dumped by my long-term boyfriend, and I'm feeling lost and embarrassed. We've been together for nearly a decade, and the sudden end of our relationship has left me completely unsure of what to do next. I'm 30 years old, and it feels like I'm ...Read more

Unemployed Reader Contemplates Move To Japan

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I find myself at a crossroads. I'm 29, and I recently lost my job at a finance company. The uncertainty of the future is overwhelming. An opportunity has recently presented itself to teach abroad in Tokyo. The idea of moving to a different country with a new culture and to teach abroad is exciting. Japan has always been a place I...Read more

Single Mom Needs Family's Help With Child Care

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a 29-year-old single mom to twin boys who are 6 years old. Due to unforeseen financial constraints, I find myself unable to afford professional child care services. In light of this, I am considering asking my family for help in watching my kids from time to time. However, I'm concerned about bringing up the topic. I don't ...Read more

Overly Blunt Tone Rubs People The Wrong Way

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I have always valued honesty and transparency in my interactions with others. I strive to provide a realistic perspective and offer straightforward feedback or advice. However, it seems that this approach is not always appreciated or well-received. Rather than being seen as someone who is genuine and reliable, I find that my ...Read more

New Mom With Postpartum Depression Ready For Help

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DEAR HARRIETTE: Following the birth of my child via a C-section, I started to experience what I believe is postpartum depression. It has been overwhelming and emotionally exhausting. One of the hardest parts for me is feeling an immense pressure to always appear OK. Despite the emotional turmoil I am facing, I feel like I have to hide my true ...Read more

Phobias Related To Childhood Trauma Cause Distress

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am currently struggling with a phobia related to gunshots and police sirens due to childhood traumas. When I was a child, I experienced instances where my father would bring conflict into our home, and it has left a lasting impact on me. As a result, I have developed an intense fear and anxiety around the sound of gunshots and ...Read more

Husband's Behavior Causes Spouse Pain

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DEAR HARRIETTE: My husband's actions are hurting me, but I am torn because I don't want to have a broken family, so I find myself constantly fighting back. His behavior toward me is causing emotional pain and distress. Despite this, I am hesitant to consider separation or divorce because I worry about the impact it would have on our family and ...Read more

Partner Ready To Move On Despite Boyfriend's Kindness

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I'm facing a dilemma and could really use your advice. I want to break up with my partner, but I feel indebted to him because of his kindness. He has always been incredibly kind and considerate toward me, going out of his way to make me feel loved and appreciated. However, I recently realized that our long-term compatibility is ...Read more

 

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