Ask Amy: Mom wonders whether to snitch on teens
Depending on the frequency of these recommendations, as well as how they’re delivered, it might be wisest to simply ignore them. Don’t click, don’t watch, don’t read.
If an in-law asks you and your wife about these resources, you can both state, honestly, that you don’t follow them.
Your wife is probably the best person to convey to her parents that you will not be raising your child in their church. It is your right – and your duty – to raise your child according to your own values.
Dear Amy: “Wondering” reported that relatives made off with some of grandma’s stuff, before the estate was settled.
Years ago, my mom handed her kids and grandkids a package of sticky notes.
We put sticky notes on items we would like after she was gone. She settled any disputes.
There are sticky notes all over the place but hopefully there will be no arguing afterward.
– No Sticky Fingers
Dear No Fingers: Mom’s a smart one.
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