Ask Amy: Elder parents ponder full financial disclosure
– Tired of Knowing
Dear Tired: If you believe that political divisiveness is ruining positive human interactions, then you should rethink your own behavior. You used to be friendly toward everyone, and now if you know or suspect they’ve voted differently than you, you avoid them.
I’m suggesting that you have your own part to play (we all do) in terms of maintaining the peaceful, pluralistic society citizens want to enjoy.
Casting your vote, advocating for your favorite candidates or causes, and greeting others with an attitude of openness and curiosity – or at least tolerance – are all ways you can stake your own claim.
These behaviors are ultimately more powerful and long-lasting than a yard sign.
Dear Amy: I respected your thoughtful response to “Sad Grandma,” who was concerned that her son-in-law was “mean” and belittling to her grandchildren.
I think you should have advised her to call Child Protective Services (CPS). Verbal abuse is abuse.
– Concerned
Dear Concerned: “Sad Grandma’s” primary question was whether she should advise the family to move in with her.
I agree that whenever an adult suspects a child is being abused, they should contact CPS. This is another choice this grandmother will have to make.
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