Ask Amy: Sibling has extreme wedding attendant anxiety
Amy Dickinson, Tribune Content Agency
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Dear Amy: Thank you for encouraging people to tip generously.
These days tips are divided amongst a whole range of staff and can include the busser, runner, dishwasher, janitorial staff and cook.
So, when tipping, look across the dining room floor and think about how the tip is going to many of them – and reconsider that it is a rating system for the server.
Until the tip system is fixed, workers are living off of those tips.
– Also Generous
Dear Generous: Thank you for offering this very good tip.
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