Neighbor wants to report disability fraud
Relocating is challenging, even when it is something you overall want to do.
One way to "adult" your way through this would be to set out on a journey together over a weekend to the proposed new location. Use the car ride to go over your pros and cons list, spend time exploring the options as you perceive them, and give your husband plenty of room to express himself freely without you pushing or prompting. His adult job is to be honest regarding his own reactions and concerns.
Ideally, when faced with huge life choices, couples will hold hands and make the leap together. But sometimes, one partner is squeezing a little harder.
Dear Amy: Thank you for your thoughtful response concerning "A from Minnesota," who is grieving her father's death.
I would like to suggest that another source of support would be grief/bereavement groups offered my most hospice organizations (whether the deceased was cared for by hospice or not) and many churches.
-- A Hospice Social Worker
Dear Social Worker: Thank you. Grief groups are an essential route toward healing for many people.
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