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Former flame worries about loan repayment

By Amy Dickinson, Tribune Content Agency on

Dear Finding: Not every relationship must somehow hue to a predictable path. I hope you will detach more from these phony benchmarks and pay closer attention to the matter currently before you: the daily effort to communicate honestly -- about everything. Your guy's choice to "outsource" intimacy is worrying.

Learning to talk about things that are hard to talk about is a true cause for celebration.

Postpone the Champagne until you feel true trust and intimacy.

Dear Amy: I can't believe your hysteria over pot smoking. Marijuana is not the source of all evil, Amy. "Parents in Despair" were worried about their teen's behavior. You blamed the pot. I blame the teen.

Shame on you.

 

-- Responsible Adult

Dear Adult: These parents reported that their 17-year-old is high every day. Yes, I'd say his marijuana use is a major factor that should not be ignored.

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(You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: Askamy@amydickinson.com. Readers may send postal mail to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. You can also follow her on Twitter @askingamy or "like" her on Facebook.)


 

 

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