Parents test drug-taking son
I was shocked -- insulted even. This has never happened to me before. In all fairness, I had my back to the door and could not see the waiting crowd, and I try to be considerate.
My friend says she was asked to leave another restaurant in our area. I went to school in Mexico City and people there have a table for as long as they wish -- doing homework or whatever.
I am wondering what you think of this, and maybe what your readers think, or even restaurateurs think. Was I wrong to be upset?
-- Kathy in Colorado
Dear Kathy: I agree that this is unusual, and rude. Wait staff have many ways of trying to urge a party along (presenting the check, etc.) before actually asking diners to leave. I assume you won't be returning to this establishment.
I'll run responses in future columns.
Dear Amy: "Heartbroken Mom" was upset about her 13-year-old daughter's relationship with a same-age boy.
I'm the mother of a 13-year-old boy. I liked your response, but I would add that she should butt out! Her daughter needs to learn how to define what she wants from a relationship, and stand up for herself.
Please consider that the biggest threat to the daughter's well-being might be her helicoptering.
A Loving Mom
-- Dear Mom: Your take is certainly valid. Thank you.
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