'Outed' uncle wants to babysit his nephew
-- Wondering
Dear Wondering: The rules for dating cousins are the same as the rules for dating others: Be kind, respectful and don't scare the horses.
Perhaps your mother has some sort of grudge against your father's kin. Maybe she objects to you dating before your divorce is final. But she can't explain her objections if she isn't speaking to you.
You are an adult. Your job is to listen, weigh your options and the impact on your (other) relationships and then make your choice and accept the consequences.
Dear Amy: I got shivers down my spine when I read the letter from "Two Decades of Guilt," who was wondering if she should report the men who sexually assaulted her 20 years ago. Thank you for encouraging her to go to the police.
-- Been There
Dear Been There: I have received dozens of responses from others who say they have "Been There," and all are cheering her on.
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