Parents with troubled son worry about disclosure
So talk about it. Put your household bills and expenses on the table and figure out how (or if) you will share them.
If he is unable (or refuses) to contribute anything, and if this is a deal breaker for you, then you should be brave enough to say so.
Dear Amy: "Homeowner" wrote to you about a potentially tragic accident at his home, when a toddler ended up in his pool.
The parent who fished the baby out had his smartphone destroyed in the process.
I liked your idea to contact the manufacturer to see if they would replace the phone, gratis.
-- Fan
Dear Fan: I figured it was worth a shot; manufacturers might find this quick-thinking act of bravery something to celebrate.
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