Mysterious messages raise relationship questions
I really like him; he is smart, kind and sweet. Given the circumstances, dating would not be a problem at work.
How should I proceed? -- T
Dear T: If being involved personally -- or being gently rebuffed -- wouldn't have a negative impact on your working relationship, you should make a choice to be brave and go for it.
The next time you travel to his area -- for work or otherwise -- you should contact him and say, "Let's make time to hang out in person. Are you interested?"
Suggest a specific activity. If he declines your idea and doesn't suggest an alternative, it's your sign that he's not into you in that way.
Dear Amy: Your advice to "Lonely" did not go far enough. Lonely described how her husband leaves her at home night after night and expects her to do all of the cooking, laundry and cleaning.
She should hire a cleaner to ease the burden. -- Practical
Dear Practical: She can also cut down on the housework by doing only her own laundry. Once he runs out of clean clothes, he may learn how to operate the washing machine.
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