Q. My husband has two boys, 6 and 8. The 6-year-old has angry outbursts and it's suspected he has Asperger's syndrome. We've been married for about a year. Normally he sees his kids each Wednesday overnight and every other weekend, but with this virus, his ex and he decided that the kids should live with each parent every other week to cut down ...Read more
Q. I moved into the same home my boyfriend and his ex lived in for five years. The goal was to live together for a couple of months while we were finding a home to buy. He's up for a promotion, decided it was too stressful to move at this moment and asked if we could stay put for another year. I said OK, but I'm sorry I did. This house is a ...Read more
Q. My grandson is 10 years old. His father, who lives with me, and his mother split his time equally. He goes back and forth every three or four days. When he's here, he sleeps in his own room and does fine. He sleeps with his mother in her bed when he's with her, even though he has his own room at her house. I just don't think it's good for my ...Read more
Q. My children's mother and I split up about two years ago. We co-parent well, but I have recently met someone and it looks like it's getting serious. I want to introduce her to my kids, but we are all on lockdown with this virus and I'm wondering if I should hold off for a while. What's good ex-etiquette?
A. I think your instinct to hold off ...Read more
Q. Is it OK for the other parent to listen in on my phone calls with our child? My daughter can go to her room for privacy at my house, but when she is with her other parent she says the her other parent comes in to listen and it makes her feel uncomfortable, but she's too scared to ask for her privacy. It's uncomfortable for me as well. What's ...Read more
Dear Mr. Dad: I'm a brand new dad and have never been more thrilled in my life. I want to be involved but I never babysat, am the first among my siblings and friends to have a child, and I have no clue what I'm supposed to do with my perfect new daughter. Got any suggestions?
A: Congrats on the new baby. From your level of enthusiasm, it's ...Read more
Q. My second husband was very ill the three years before he passed. I took care of him in our home the entire time. Being in my late 60s, I did not think I would ever meet someone else, but surprisingly, I did, six months to the day of his passing at the grocery store. We hit it off and have been dating for five months. His wife also passed. My ...Read more
JEFFERSON CITY, Mo. -- The Missouri Supreme Court ruled Tuesday that a Missouri law prohibiting Medicaid payments to abortion providers was unconstitutional.
Planned Parenthood sued the state two years ago after Missouri lawmakers changed the state budget to exclude abortion providers and any related affiliates from Medicaid. It is the sole ...Read more
Q. My ex is far more tenacious in her approach to what's going on in our nation. While I, of course sympathize with the Black Lives Matter movement, I believe change starts at home and that's how I choose to take my stand. She is quite vocal, participates in protests and wants to take our 6-year-old son with her "to educate" him. I say no, I'm ...Read more
Dear Mr. Dad: I remember a column you wrote a few years back about arguing in front of the kids, and, as I recall, you thought it might be a good thing. Like lots of couples these days, my husband and I have been arguing a lot more than usual. Sometimes it's about the coronavirus, sometimes it's about politics, and sometimes I'm not even sure ...Read more
Q. My daughter is getting married at the end of the month and although it's just around the corner, we are still arguing about who will walk her down the aisle. She wants both her bonusdad and me (her father) to walk her, but I say absolutely not. For the record, I'm grateful we are all paying for this wedding, but still, it's the father's place...Read more
Q. I am a fanatic about wearing a mask when my kids go out, but their dad doesn't really care. My kids are 14, 10 and 5. Then the kids come home and complain that they have to wear a mask at my house and it's a fight every time. They are gravitating to dad's house and I'm desperate to know what to do. I don't know how to impress upon their ...Read more
Q. Hello ex-etiquette readers:
Rather than answer a question this week, I'm going to address a trend I'm seeing in the emails you send me. This COVID virus has affected us all -- whether you've had it or not -- and because we are home and unable to get out, many are online much more than they used to be. The mind goes back to when you used to ...Read more
Q. I met my boyfriend in high school. He was very demanding and with college and all, we slowly drifted apart. We both married and I got a divorce about two years ago. He was having trouble in his marriage and separated. We met each other via Facebook and immediately connected again. We live together now, and he's working on finalizing his ...Read more
Q. I've been single for about six months and decided to start dating again. I hit it off with a guy I met on a dating site and we decided to have lunch. During the lunch he asked if I wanted to see a picture of his daughter and the pic he showed me was of him, his daughter, and his ex, who was an extremely striking woman. I'm not a jealous ...Read more
Dear Mr. Dad: My wife found out she was pregnant late last year -- just a few months before the coronavirus turned our world (and everyone else's) upside down. Fortunately, her pregnancy has been problem-free and we've been able to do many of her prenatal visits with her OB by video conference (although she's had to do a few in-person visits as ...Read more
Q. My ex is venting on Facebook and it's opened a huge can of worms. Most of the things she is saying are gross exaggerations and I have mutual friends calling me up asking if what she is saying is true. Two of my friends' wives have told my friends they don't want me to hang out with them. I know I cheated, but is it really necessary to ...Read more