Social Security and You: Questions from Young Widows
Last week, I answered questions about Social Security widow's benefits. But I ran out of column space before I ran out of questions to answer. So, this week, more questions and answers about widows. Last week's questions were mostly from older women in their 70s and 80s. Today's questions come from younger widows.
Q: My husband recently died at age 45. I am also 45. We have three children, ages 11, 14 and 16. I called the Social Security office to file for benefits for the kids. But I got all confused when the agent started talking about what he called "mother's benefits" and maximum family benefits and benefits stopping at age 16. I thought the kids get checks until they are 18. Can you help me understand what is going on?
A: I'd be happy to help. And you'll see it's actually not going to be all that complicated.
Each child is technically due an amount equal to 75% of your husband's basic Social Security benefit.
But there is a rule that sets a maximum amount that can be paid to a family getting survivor benefits. The formula for determining the exact maximum amount can get a little messy. But it usually comes out to around 180% of your husband's basic benefit.
To explain further, let's use an example. Let's say your husband's basic benefit rate is $2,800. Again, each child is technically due 75% of that, or $2,100. That would come out to a total of $6,300. But the maximum amount that can be paid to your family is 180% of $2,800, or $5,040. So, each child will get one-third of that, or $1,680. ($1,680 times 3 equals $5,040.)
If you were not working, you would also technically be due a widow's benefit. (The term the Social Security Administration uses to refer to benefits for a young widow with children is "mother's benefits.") So, you could apply for mother's benefits and get added to the beneficiary rolls. But right now, it wouldn't make any sense because your family is already getting the maximum amount possible, or $5,040. Or to put that another way, if you were also getting benefits, your Social Security pie would just be split four ways instead of three. In other words, you'd get four checks at $1,260 each per month instead of three checks at $1,680 each per month.
When your oldest child is no longer eligible for benefits, then it would make sense for you to apply for mother's benefits. That's because then you'd be down to two kids each due the 75% rate, or $2,100 per child, for a total of $4,200. And with a family maximum of $5,040, that leaves $840 per month that could be paid to you.
Each child is due benefits until he or she reaches age 18, although benefits can continue until age 19 if they are still in high school.
The age 16 rule you heard about is the cutoff age for mother's benefits. Or to put that more precisely, you are due mother's benefits until your youngest child turns 16 (although the child continues to get benefits until age 18).