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Be predictable. Set up a daily feeding, playtime, and grooming routine to give Tucker a sense of security. Consistency may help reduce his anxiety and encourage him to feel more comfortable in his new environment.

It also helps to pay attention to Tucker's body language. If he shows discomfort or agitation, walk away, and give him space. You can gradually increase the duration and intensity of your interactions with him as he becomes more accepting of your affections.

I once adopted a semi-feral cat from a shelter. It took almost a year for him to be comfortable in our home, but every year he showed more and more affection. By the time he was six or seven years old, he was the most loving cat that I had ever had in my family.

So don't give up. By providing Tucker with a safe and nurturing environment, you can help him gradually overcome his skittishness and learn to trust and bond with you.

Dear Cathy,

Last summer, I adopted a three-year-old Shiba Inu. Nefret is a puppy mill survivor, with all the baggage that entails. But she is adapting well to her new life with me, slowly becoming more comfortable with new people and new situations. I'm lucky that our local coffee shop is dog-friendly, so we can visit weekly to socialize.

But I'm writing with an odd question: Is there a way that I could encourage Nefret to bark? She is capable, with a "Timmy fell down the well" sharp bark when playing in the yard, but I would appreciate it if she would let me know when someone is coming to the door.

— Keri, North Catasauqua, Pennsylvania

Dear Kari,

While Shibas are known for their independence and intelligence, it's certainly possible to work on training them to alert you when someone is approaching. Start by pairing a command, like "speak" or "alert," when Nefret barks during your playtime sessions. Offer immediate praise and treats to reinforce the barking behavior.

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