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Q: What do we say to our kids when Grandpa and Grandma play favorites? My parents are clearly partial to my daughter -- their first grandchild -- over her little brother. He obviously notices but doesn't say much. Help?!?

Jim: I'd say that your top priority is to affirm your son (the youngest child). Reassure him that you've seen the signs of ...Read more

Q: I recently remarried after years of being a single parent. My new husband is a wonderful man. He's kind, but firm, with my three kids and plans to adopt them. But my preschool-age son is having a difficult time warming up to his new stepfather. Help!?

Jim: Based on my own experience as a young stepson, it's easy for me to see this situation ...Read more

Q: I'm not generally one for labels, but I think it's fair to call my husband a "workaholic" -- he might even agree. He's preoccupied with his job and spends very little time with me and our kids. When I've asked him about it he just says: "Things will be better soon." Do you have any suggestions?

Jim: As a rule, we men are usually wired to be ...Read more

Q: My husband was an excellent athlete as a teen and collegian. Our teen son is also showing athletic promise. But he doesn't enjoy playing sports because of the pressure he gets from Dad to perform. How can I help balance the growing tension in our home?

Jim: I myself grew up enjoying and benefitting from sports, so in many ways I can ...Read more

Q: My aged mother is not doing well. We're strongly considering bringing her into our home rather than placing her in a care facility. But we still have three children living with us. How might this impact our family dynamics?

Jim: It will likely be a big impact -- and you should be prepared for blessings as well as challenges. On the plus side...Read more