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Q: Sometimes my wife and I are at a loss as to how to motivate our kids to do their best without getting pushy. We want them to reach their full potential. Do you have any suggestions?

Jim: My advice is actually pretty simple: Always be their cheerleader. Affirmation beats out criticism and negativity any day. But here's the catch -- make sure ...Read more

Q: My husband recently passed away after a long battle with health issues. My entire identity had become wrapped up in caring for him. Now that the struggle is over, I feel empty and lost as well as grieved. I honestly don't know where to turn or what to do next.

Jim: My heart goes out to you. The death of any loved one is difficult, especially...Read more

Q: I'm ashamed to say that I've done and said some hurtful things to my wife over the past couple of years. She's withdrawn from me emotionally, and I'm not sure how to convince her I've changed. How can I get her to forgive me?

Jim: Our own pride can often be the biggest hurdle in these situations -- so humbling yourself and acknowledging your...Read more

Q: Several years ago our daughter-in-law severed all contact with us, and we've had little contact since with our son or her. We've asked them many times to tell us how we've wronged them so we can make amends and maintain relationship, but there has been no response. What can we do?

Jim: My heart goes out to you. It could have been something ...Read more

Q: I'm a single woman. I've been wondering if I should have a will and/or estate plan. Is this something I should be concerned about?

Jim: I'd say: it depends. Under most circumstances it's advisable for anyone to have a will, but the precise course of action you should follow will be determined by the specifics of your situation.

For instance...Read more