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Annie's Mailbox: Trying To Build a Better Life in the Midwest

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Dear Annie: I am a married woman in my early 60s. My husband and I have been married for 35 years. We get along fine most of the time. He is a good man and a good provider. He can be opinionated at times, but he loves his family and friends.

The problem is his constant need for sex. During our early years, I went along with it, but he would ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Fed Up in a Lonely Home, Blow It Out Your Ear

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Dear Annie: I've been on antidepressant and bipolar medication for 12 years. The problem is, I feel I am being overmedicated. I want to sleep all day. I am also legally deaf. I live with my parents because I am unable to drive. My depression and resulting destructive spiral caused my grades to go south in college, which has interfered with my ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Moving On Without Him

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Dear Annie: I am 74, slim and in perfect health. For the past six years, I have been living part time with "Fabio," my 81-year-old Italian boyfriend. I have supported him through lung cancer and other medical problems. Now he has decided he needs someone 60 or younger to entertain him.

A year ago, Fabio secretly joined a singles group. He ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Miss Her, Not Him

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Dear Annie: I was in a long-distance relationship with "Jerry" for six years. He frequently spoke about commitment, but when he still wasn't ready to do anything after all that time, I broke things off. That was a month ago.

Although our breakup wasn't particularly acrimonious, it has been difficult emotionally. I used to spend summers with ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Doesn't know why her not liking sex is a problem

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Dear Annie: I have been married for two years to a man I love, and we have a new baby daughter. I should be happy, but I am not.

Annie, I do not like sex. I didn't like it on my wedding night, and I don't like it now. I was raised in the Catholic Church, and sex before marriage is a sin. My husband respected my wishes. So how is it that just ...Read more

Annie's Mailbo: Wants Granddaughter Gone

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Dear Annie: My 42-year-old granddaughter is currently living with me. She has been evicted twice for not paying rent, her credit is no good, and she can't find anybody who will rent to her. She has three young children who are living with my son (her father) and his wife.

I am 83 years young and cannot have the children here. It's bad enough ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Caught in the Middle

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Dear Annie: My 37-year-old daughter, "Raya," has claimed that my husband, her stepfather, propositioned her for sex several times when she was a teenager. But she never mentioned it to me until she was in her 20s.

Over the years, Raya has needed our help for housing and finances. When she borrows money, she rarely pays us back. Whenever Raya ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Double standard for alcoholism

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Dear Annie: Please tell me, when did alcoholism become a disease? A disease is when the body is ill and not functioning properly.

According to Webster's Dictionary, addiction is the quality or state of being addicted, and continues that it is a "compulsive need for and use of a habit-forming substance (as heroin, nicotine or alcohol) ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Unqualified and Underage

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Dear Annie: I've known Owen for four years, and we are in various classes together. We email regularly and chat all the time, and I consider him my best friend. Our parents are good friends, too.

Recently, Owen and I have become closer than "just friends" and privately expressed our feelings for each other. However, once our parents found out, ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Confused About Troubled Woman

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Dear Annie: When I was a teenager I gave up a child for adoption. Eighteen years later, "Doris" came looking for me, and we formed a very cordial relationship. By then, I was married and had three other children. Doris was also married, with children, and she and I visited often. I attended funerals, weddings, births, birthdays, dance recitals ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Freshman is Too Small

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Dear Annie: I am a 14-year-old high school freshman who is depressed about my future. As a result of my premature birth, I have a heart defect and lung problems and am very small for my age. Recently, my family went to a local park. It was humid, and I was so worn out that my older brother let me ride on his back. Some classmates saw me and ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Distressed Daughter

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Dear Annie: I am the middle sister of three. My mother has always favored my younger sister, "Louise," despite periods of seriously bad behavior. Mom has bailed Louise out of numerous poor financial decisions. She also takes her and her son on cruises and buys them expensive presents.

I recently found out that Mom is giving Louise a regular ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Feeling Your Pain

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Dear Annie: This is in response to Confused and Hurting, whose 18-year-old son had taken his life. The family felt the community was snubbing them, as well as their sixth grader.

When my brother died from AIDS 20 years ago, few people in our small town acknowledged his death. My parents were from a generation that didn't openly discuss their ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Husband texting an old fling

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Dear Annie: I recently found out that my 62-year-old husband has been texting a woman with whom he had an intimate relationship in the past. He has admitted that these texts were flirtatious and filled with "dirty talk." He swears that there was no physical contact, but I'm skeptical. It's been going on for at least eight months, and I am not ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Sick and tired of immature sister

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Dear Annie: My younger sister, "Nora," is 43 and acts like an 18-year-old brat. She became pregnant nine years ago by a drug addict who is currently in jail for raping a 14-year-old girl. (He is out of the picture, thank goodness.) I love my nephew, "Michael." My older sister and I keep him at our homes most weekends.

The problem is, Nora uses ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Doesn't want to invite problematice father-in-law

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Dear Annie: My husband, an only child, never had a great relationship with his father, "Clyde." My mother-in-law died six years ago, and my husband passed away three years later. While things are improving for my daughter and me, we are both having a hard time dealing with Clyde, who is in his late 60s.

The day my husband died, Clyde said, "I'm...Read more

Annie's Mailbo: Terrible treatment over a falsehood

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Dear Annie: When I was a teenager, one of my cousins tried to molest me when we were at our grandmother's house. He tried to force a kiss on me and said because I was older, I should learn about sex and teach it to him. I fought him off.

I was afraid to tell our grandmother, because she would have been so upset. Grandma is gone now. The problem...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Falling love with friend's widow

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Dear Annie: Two years ago, a good friend died of a heart attack. His wife, "Sally," asked me to help her get rid of his things, which I was happy to do, and I soon found myself mowing her lawn and doing chores around the house.

Here is the problem: I am a happily married man and father of four. I have been married for 25 years and love my wife ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Dealing with husband's stubborn half-brother

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Dear Annie: My husband's half-brother is 59 and working as a custodian. "John" does not drink or smoke and can converse well, but has a learning disability and cannot read. He tried tutors, but made no progress. He did OK while his mother was alive, but she died, and then John's wife died within the same year.

John has four adult children. One ...Read more

Annie's Mailbox: Appropriate behavior at upcoming Catholic funeral

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Dear Annie: I am Protestant, and my husband was baptized in the Catholic Church, but religion was never important to him or his family. Neither of us has converted, nor will we. My husband has attended services with me, and I have attended the occasional holiday Mass with my in-laws. I respect their faith.

Here's the problem: My mother-in-law ...Read more

 
 

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