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Non-Traditional Ideas for Wedding Gifts
Simon Phillips
An Ethical Alternative to the Conspicuous Excess of the Average
Wedding
Many happy couples are turning their backs on the traditional wedding
gift list in favor of a more ethical approach to their big day. If
you are put off by the materialism and “me, me, me” aspect of
modern weddings, then why not plan your day to reflect your personal
philosophy and beliefs? It’s not just gift lists that are being
replaced. Conscientious brides and grooms are putting a lot of
thought into making every part of their wedding day more ecologically
sound, from purchasing fair trade flowers to using organic food in the
catering.
With the cost of the average wedding reported to be around £17,000, a
rising number of couples are beginning to question just where that
money goes. In these times of environmental awareness and social
responsibility, a lot of people are looking at how they can arrange
their special day with these ethical principles in mind.
A growing number of wedding gift lists are being substituted for the
more selfless idea of charity lists. The fact that many people live
together nowadays before they get married, means that they already
have all the household items they actually need. Rather than ask
their guests for gratuitous symbols of consumption, some couples are
choosing to support a good cause instead. Guests are asked to donate
to charity in a range of ways, from buying a cow or a camel for a
third world community, to planting trees to create a woodland grove.
"Green" issues can come into every aspect of wedding planning, from
finding "conflict-free" wedding rings to environmentally-friendly
confetti and wedding invitations made from recycled paper. More and
more people are choosing to follow an ethically-aware lifestyle, so it
makes sense for their wedding day to follow their beliefs. Ways to
cut down on waste and food miles include using local and organic
produce for the food, or even asking a friend or relative to make the
wedding cake. Wedding flowers are another controversial issue, with
many cheap non-fair trade flowers being flown in from abroad. Locally
produced fair trade flowers are a more suitable option for the ethical
bride.
When planning your wedding the wedding dress can be a huge expense.
With regular reports of exploitative child labor in the clothing
industry, ethical brides are conscious not just of the aesthetic
appeal of their bridal gown, but the social and environmental impact
of it’s production. Fortunately there is a range of ethical wedding
gowns on the market these days to meet this demand. Beautiful organic
wedding dresses, made from organic cotton are a good choice, as are
fair trade silk bridesmaid dresses. Some designers are creating
wonderful unique wedding dresses from recycled fabrics such as vintage
silk. Hemp is another popular eco-friendly material.
So, if the excess of modern weddings is not for you, you can choose to
use your wedding day as an opportunity to give something back.
*About the Author: Simon Phillips is a successful freelance writer and
regular contributor to http://www.discount-wedding-dresses.com,
your one stop source for finding the best deals on wedding
favors, bridal gowns, wedding accessories and more!