Empathy gap remains a challenge for LGBTQ allies
As a Mexican American, I can relate to those who have been discriminated against based on skin color. Every week, I get emails from readers who assume -- because of my Spanish surname -- that I must support an open border with Mexico. You can bet that white columnists don't have to put up with that ignorance.
Yet when it comes to sexual orientation, there's an empathy gap between my brother and me. We live different lives. He has worries, anger, and frustrations that I can't relate to -- no matter how supportive I try to be.
Finally, I asked him: "What do you think straight people need to hear?"
"If you're going to be an ally, be a 100% ally," he said.
Pride month isn't just about the proud. More and more, it's about their allies. It's a time to reaffirm our commitment and demonstrate that we're totally behind the cause.
When our LGBTQ friends and family members stand up for themselves, they shouldn't stand alone.
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Ruben Navarrette's email address is ruben@rubennavarrette.com.
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