Taking the Kids: Meeting locals the best way to explore
One visit to Athens won’t cut it. “You’ve got to come back for a second visit,” says Spyros Kagkas. The native Athenian runs This is Athens with a Local, a volunteer program featuring free tours designed to connect tourists with those who live here, whether you want to see a typical neighborhood, focus on food, architecture or what would be interesting for families. This program is similar to Greeter programs in New York, Japan, Paris and elsewhere designed to connect locals with visitors seeking something different than a traditional tour.
On a first visit, Kagkas explains, tourists check off the must-sees – The Acropolis, the Plaka, the museums, but they don’t experience Athens like a local, sitting in a square lingering over coffee or a drink, exploring a neighborhood. “Visitors say they have seen Athens, but they haven’t really seen anything about the way we live.”
That’s why Kagkas suggests getting the Big Sites out of the way on a first visit and then coming back. “We don’t go to museums,” he said. “We go for authenticity.”
And while there are chefs in the program who might give a food-focused tour or architects who focus on buildings, the real emphasis is on authenticity. “Everyone can tell you where they go for souvlaki or coffee … everyone has their own opinion and can tell you what they love about Athens.”
I might say the same about experiencing New York, San Francisco, or Paris. There’s something to be said for settling into a neighborhood, shopping at local shops and farmers markets, frequenting a local café — at least meeting some locals.
Food is always a good icebreaker, I’ve found, just as your kids joining local kids at a playground or walking your dog. Certainly, it is tough right now when we are all being so cautious during this seemingly never-ending pandemic. We can hope that 2022 will be different, especially by next spring and summer when you might want to visit Greece, whether cruising on a big or small ship or island-hopping.
We were fortunate in Athens to cook dinner one night with a young couple, sharing stories about how we cook at home and American movies.
(Eleni Fotiou is an Athenian who runs MAMAKITA, which specializes in organizing custom private trips for families, complete with a “child whisperer” to explain Greece’s most famous archeological sites or local hiking guides, Greek-owned Celestyal Cruises touts local food and entertainment while intimate Variety Cruises, owned by the same Greek family since 1949 with no more than 50 passengers, has an Unexplored Greece itinerary that visits smaller, less touristed islands. Alternative Athens offers the opportunity to visit a local family’s home as well as special family activities, including a graffiti workshop and a young heroes family mythology tour.
Tours by Locals is a company we have used for off-the-tourist track experiences.)
But perhaps our favorite meet-the-locals experience in Greece was actually a shore excursion from Celebrity’s new Apex in Mykonos. Because of the pandemic, more smaller and private excursions have been offered, including to Teta Fragedaki’s home on the island with just 20 of us. Though not inexpensive ($189), we all agreed it was well worth the price and a unique opportunity to visit a local’s home on Mykonos where Fragedaki joked there are more helicopters than taxis as Mykonos “is the only place in Greece where no one is poor.”