My Pet World: Older dogs letting puppy know when they are annoyed
I have three female dogs. Sassy the oldest one is 11 and acts like an old lady. Star is 5 and very energetic. They both are good girls and very loving. A couple of weeks ago, my neighbor gave me Sarina, a 7-week-old puppy who is very energetic and loving.
My problem is, Sarina is teething, and anything and everything goes in her mouth. She has a teething bone and lots of toys. Sassy growls at her if she comes close and has even snapped at her twice. Thankfully, there's been no contact. Star growls and snaps at her. She tries to play with Sarina, but she doesn't like to be a chew toy. Sarina thinks my braid is a pull toy and I'm a chew toy. I tap her nose, tell her no and give her the teething bone or a toy, to no avail.
The girls are jealous, especially Star. When Star is giving me kisses, here comes Sarina. Star gives me a sad look and tries moving away. How can I stop the jealousy and the biting? I don't want to give Sarina back to my neighbor. Help!
- Jimmie, Arlington, Texas
Sassy and Star are snapping at Sarina to let her know it's not OK to bite them. If they are snapping when she approaches, they may be annoyed by her puppy energy and are telling her they want to be left alone. Growling and snapping are some of the ways that dogs communicate with each other.
There is no need to interfere unless they start fighting. In fact, if you do interfere, it could lead to some jealousy. Let them communicate with each other. Eventually, Sarina will learn what the two older female dogs are saying, and she will adjust her behavior to accommodate them, which is how it should be.
To avoid jealousy issues, don't stop petting one dog to pet the other. For example, if you're petting Star and Sarina comes along, continue petting Star. Sarina needs to wait her turn. I have trained my dog with "not now," to communicate I am not available to him at the moment, and "your turn" so he knows when I am ready to engage him.
You can do that with all your dogs. When you're done petting Star, get up and move to another location before you interact with Sarina. This helps separate the attention and doesn't make Star feel as though she is being pushed aside for the puppy. You might have to do this for a few months, but eventually they will all feel like family and won't mind when you pet one and then pet another.