Everyday Cheapskate: Would You Put a Teenager in Charge of the Family Vacation Budget?
One of the most memorable letters I've received in my writing career came from a mother, reporting on how she and her husband took a big financial leap of faith with their daughter -- a move that paid off big.
Dear Mary: I wanted to tell you the secret of sticking to a budget on our family vacation -- something we've had a hard time achieving in the past. This year, we let our teenage daughter plan the vacation. Seems too simple, I know.
We told her the amount we had to spend beyond the cost of overnight accommodations. We told her she could spend the money any way she wanted. We could eat out every night or cook dinner in our kitchenette. She could spend it all on the boardwalk.
Our spendthrift daughter became Ms. Frugality. She wanted to parasail. So she had us eat every single meal in the room and spent fewer than $20 at the boardwalk. We parasailed and had the best time ever. We came home with cash in our pockets. Best of all, we are enjoying the priceless accomplishment of teaching our child the value of money. -- Madeline
Dear Madeline: Wow, way to go! What a great idea, and I am so proud of your sweet daughter for accepting the challenge of such a big task. I'm going to predict that this event will stay with her for a lifetime and will begin to shape her money life. Never again will she think you have unlimited sources of money. She's experienced how making good choices with a limited amount of money can result in positive outcomes. You gave her the opportunity to make her own independent financial decisions, and she scored. Please give her my heartfelt congratulations, and a big, frugal high-five!
Dear Mary: Living on a fixed income, and given the nature of the economy, we are thinking about switching to prepaid cellphones to cut expenses even further. If I terminate my current cellphone service, will I still be able to use the camera feature on my phone? I take pictures and download them to my computer to share with family and friends, though I do not have a data plan on my phone. -- B.J.
Dear B.J. I don't know which phone you have, but generally, the camera will still work even if you cancel your phone service. If you have an iPhone, it will continue to function except for connecting to the internet, making calls or texting. Please confirm this information with your phone's manufacturer before pulling the plug on your service, just to be certain. Then you'll know that your decision is fully informed.
Dear Mary: How can I stop buying stuff I can't afford? Honestly, I can go to Target determined to buy only a few things I need, and end up with $200 of stuff in my cart. I am disgusted with myself, like I need to turn myself in to the shopping police. Thanks. -- Jennifer
Dear Jennifer: Well, you have a friend in me. I know exactly what you're talking about because I have that same "gene." Here's how I got that little monster under control: 1) Cash only. Do not go to Target (or any store) with any plastic in tow. Unless you plan to rob the place, you can't spend more than you have allocated. 2) Don't wander. Plan your route so you go directly to the location of the items you need. 3) Wear sunglasses. Seriously. Indoors, nothing looks that great through sunglasses. 4) Make-a-wish list. Take along a small notepad. If, despite items 1-3 above, you happen to see things that are not your list -- things that you really want, need or must have -- put them on the list. When you get home, you can make plans for how to save for those items.
Once you've saved for the things on your make-a-wish list, you may discover you can live without them. That's cool. You'll have a little cash stashed for something more important.
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