Hello, Edith: My sister purchased a home nearly 25 years ago, and her partner has lived with her the entire time, sharing expenses. It recently occurred to her that she should put her partner's name on the deed, as she isn't getting any younger. She saw an attorney who told her that it was not possible since she and her partner are not related ...Read more
Dear Edith: I'm a widow, and I own my house free and clear. It's the main thing I own. I've recently developed cancer, and I think it's time to make a will, and I don't know what's the right thing to do about who to leave it to. My children are all happily married. One daughter has two children; one daughter has three; and my son has none. How ...Read more
Dear Edith: We have two houses to sell. Both are in highly desirable areas. Commissions in our area are 6 percent. The agent we are working with has told me she will do it for 2.5 percent on her side. Does that mean there will probably be a buyer's agent as well? Will we be paying a total of 5.5 percent? Should we ask for a bigger discount? She ...Read more
Ms. Lank: We are looking to buy our first home, and we have a good agent, but I thought I would double-check with you. She says we will be expected to give her a substantial check when we make an offer on a house. She says that's standard practice, but both of us are nervous about it. Is this the way it's really done? What if our offer isn't ...Read more
Dear Edith: I'm facing the sale of my home. I've been living here for 38 years. I am curious about a few things:
--After choosing an agent to sell the house, should you share any weaknesses in the house, i.e. a couple of drafty windows, although all are replacements?
--I purchased the house plans from the architect for $700. Does that figure ...Read more
Gentle readers: Here are some questions received from readers over the years that I couldn't bear to part with. Enjoy!
Dear Sir: Is it legal for a house to be listed with two different Realtors, and as such, for the owners to sign agreements with two different buyers, each depositing an earnest money on the property?
If not legal, what can we ...Read more
Ms. Lank: I wrote in a long time ago with a question about not wanting to pay income tax on my forgiven debt when I sold my house in a short sale years ago.
Just to update you, after an IRS hearing, which was surprisingly pleasant and took place over the telephone, I turned in an amended tax return with the proper form filled out. The canceled ...Read more
Hello, Edith: Is there a way for us to access your recent article on financing for first-time homeowners? We enjoy your column and thank you for any information you can provide. -- S. and J.
Answer: More than 20 years ago, I wrote a book called "The Home Buyer's Kit." It went through several editions but is out of print now.
Recently, though, ...Read more
Ms. Lank: My husband and I are currently in an apartment but have been looking for a house for months now. Our lease is up on June 30.
A few days ago, our landlord sent a letter stating that we need to let him know whether or not we are going to resign for next year. He gave us three days to make the decision.
Not wanting to lose our apartment...Read more
Ms. Lank: I am going to take your advice and interview some agents about selling my house. How likely is it that they will negotiate how much they will charge in commission? Are the rates set by law, or can I bargain? -- L. W.
Answer: In any given area, real estate commissions cluster around one particular rate. Those rates are not set by law, ...Read more
Hi, Edith: I read an article in which a writer suggested a method of estimating the value of one's home by analyzing "closing values." You responded by saying in part that there's nothing more accurate than recent "comparable" sales.
My question to you is this: What was the writer's definition of "closing values"? I took that to mean selling ...Read more
Dear Edith: We have a pretty good credit rating but not much cash. My father-in-law says there are ways to buy real estate with little or no money down. Is that just in the past, or is it still possible? -- B.
Answer: Yes, there are still ways to buy your own home with almost no cash, especially for first-timers. Your good credit rating is a ...Read more
Dear Edith: My friends are buying a property in a different state. Both parties are finally ready for closing. It is scheduled for next week, the day after final walk-through.
They are paying cash. They were planning to bring a cashier's check to the closing, after the walk-through proves satisfactory. There is a branch of their bank in the new...Read more