Ask Amy: An in-law’s unfiltered comment leaves a mark
I think you should chalk this comment up to an elder person’s lowered filter. (Is it possible that he is carrying a torch for you?)
Taking into account all of the variables, if you still feel compelled to ask about this, do so (not through your sister). There is some likelihood that he will either deny – or will not remember – having made the comment that has caused you so much angst.
Dear Amy: I’ve included a family Christmas letter along with my Christmas cards for over 30 years now.
This is fun, and it is something I like to do.
My husband and I are divorcing this year after over 40 years of marriage.
Should I even briefly mention this in my letter?
Christmas is a time of hope and celebration.
Many people who receive my cards only hear from me once a year, so I honestly don’t know if I should address this.
Thank you for your insight.
– Sad News
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