Ask Amy: A couple struggles to describe their meet-cute
If your mother-in-law seems exceptionally upset and you think it might help to try to talk this through, you could start with some questions (always patiently wait for the answer): “You seem very curious about this. We’ve told you that we met at a concert. What is it that you’re hoping to learn, aside from what we’ve told you?”
She may have heard a rumor and wants to confirm it.
But – this is your life and your story, and you should convey your own version of: “This is our story, and we’re sticking to it.”
Dear Amy: I am a single woman in my mid-30s.
I have a Ph.D. and currently own a successful business.
I recently reconnected with an old friend. Early in the friendship he disclosed that he has a highly contagious STD.
Because of this, we never crossed the line of " friendship.”
Recently, we've had more time to reconnect and enjoy each other's company.
We've already established that we like each other beyond friendship, but we have not discussed whether a physical relationship is possible.
I do have questions, but I'm not sure how to ask them.
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