Ask Amy: Man witnesses assault, wonders what to do
It’s important to recognize that this is not about your mother, or you, but about him – and he believes that he is moving forward.
If you were getting married, you would want your father to accept your choice. Accepting his choice (even if you’re not ready to witness it) will be an important part of your relationship with him.
If you decide not to attend the wedding, you should plan a trip to see your father and to meet her as soon as you are able. If you have a partner, sibling or close friend who could do this with you it might help for you to offload your feelings and talk this experience through.
Dear Amy: “Early Retirement” was cohabiting with parents and feeling lonely and isolated.
Having recently moved to a new city, I have been amazed at how many people I've met by joining a rock-climbing gym and meetup groups.
I’ve met so many friendly people around my age (30s). Plus, it's a healthy activity!
I would offer this advice to anyone feeling isolated, stuck, or bored.
–Climbing
Dear Climbing: Great recommendation.
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