Ask Amy: Parents outraged that daughter is with married man
To put it simply – this is not working out. At all.
I am unhappy, but perhaps more importantly, the cat is very unhappy. I live in an apartment and am out all day at my job. The cat often seems extremely restless and almost frantic, and is quite destructive.
Previously the cat had lived on a large property with outdoor opportunities. I’m certain this would be best for her.
How can I best handle this?
– Unhappy
Dear Unhappy: You should be honest with your family member, outlining everything you have mentioned here. Tell her that for the cat’s sake you believe that she needs to be rehomed, and let her know that you will do your utmost to find the best possible situation for the cat.
In the meantime, work with a vet to see if there are techniques you can try to ease the animal’s anxiety.
Dear Amy: I enjoyed your response to “Splitting,” the woman who asked if she should go with her husband to notify his parents of their impending divorce.
My big question was: How did they manage to live five minutes away from the in-laws, and yet only see them once a month?
– Jealous
Dear Jealous: Several readers expressed similar sardonic responses.
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