Ask Amy: Long-ago infidelity leads to bizarre twist
I have a suspicion as to the reason, which is based upon a slanderous falsehood that she was told about me.
This still bothers me, both because of the lie and the way that I was so abruptly dropped.
Should I just accept it and move on, or should I try to find out for sure why I was ghosted by contacting my now ex-friend?
– Ghosted and Confused
Dear Ghosted: You’ve already asked your ex-friend why she abruptly pulled away. Don’t ask again.
You have also tried to accept this and have not been able to.
I vote for the truth.
This person is already ghosting you. Bottom line, she will probably continue, no matter what.
You have one shot at this, so make it good.
Write exactly what your suspicions are. You have the right and the duty to correct the record regarding this “slanderous falsehood.”
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