Ask Amy: Group texts flummox family member
When I attend family events, there is always plenty of food to be enjoyed by all.
My problem is that the obese women in my family like to make comments about my plate of food.
They say things like, “Is that all you’re eating? No wonder you’re so skinny.”
Then everyone who heard the comment will laugh or add another comment.
I find this annoying and hurtful.
Why does no one defend me?
If I commented on an obese person’s plate and said, “You’re eating all that? No wonder you’re obese!” I would be vilified, while she would get defended.
I don’t understand the double standard.
What would be a good comeback that would put a stop to this without causing harm?
– Stop Judging Me
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