Ask Amy: Partner and dog should roam free
You have known this person for a long time. That person is still there – carrying the same memories and shared experiences from before this transition. So, make an effort to see them for who they are, and as more than just a source of some awkwardness or confusion for you.
Keep your sense of humor, don’t become defensive, let them know that you’re a work-in-progress, and that you’re hoping for their continued patience while you adjust.
Dear Amy: “Dazed and Confused” was extremely distressed by the sudden reappearance of a long-ago ex.
I totally identified with her. I had an ex reappear, toy with my emotions, and then abruptly leave – just as he had done years before.
What a waste.
– Burned Twice
Dear Burned: I assume that at this point you’re relieved he took a powder.
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