Ask Amy: Long-married couple copes with negativity
See her physician. Her stress could cause health problems, but an undiagnosed medical issue might also contribute to her stress.
And yes – therapy! Good therapy, like a good marriage, is all about the right fit. Keep trying.
Dear Amy: I am currently filling out divorce papers, due to the simple fact my husband lies so much. Our 16 years together feels like a lie.
He lies about being at work when he isn't.
He has disappeared more times than I can count – I’m talking total MIA.
He sold our living room furniture but told me they were stolen.
He accuses me of cheating with his friend, who I barely know (but he hangs out with him).
I found three pre-paid money cards he used to get sex, but he said he never did — he just got robbed.
I don't understand why he lies about stuff that is obviously not true.
I’m confused as to why I allow this crazy nonsense.
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