Ask Amy: Sober spouse doesn’t know when to quit
You have fought for your own sobriety. You have a duty to make a protective and healthy choice for yourself, and let your husband learn how to fight for his own sobriety.
Heartbreaking as it is for you, you may need to continue to love your husband from a safer distance.
If it’s time for you to leave the marriage, then you should leave it without any bargains in place.
Dear Amy, a friend of mine met a lovely man whom she started dating.
She found out that he is married to a woman who has Alzheimer's.
My friend goes to his house to care for his wife and to help him out.
They are dating.
He is a married man!
Is it me, or is this a little strange?
– Wondering
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